If you read “The Care And Feeding Of Search Engines, A Simple Guide To SEO“, you know that there are many, many things that you can do to increase your search engine optimization and get more traffic.
The very easiest way to get traffic is to comment on other people’s blogs and leave a link to your site. They usually link your name to your site. Don’t be obnoxious about it. Don’t oversell yourself or be rude, but leaving a link is common and acceptable.
The other benefit of commenting on other people’s blogs is that they usually read your comments. If you are witty and relevant enough, they might even come check out your site. If you have great content on your site, (and you do, right?), then they might even become a fan of yours. Maybe they become a friend. Poof! A relationship is born.
The hard part of commenting on other people’s site is that it takes time. You don’t see results right away.
I nagged coached Deborah, my wife’s friend with the sea glass jewelry site, to leave comments. (Did you notice that? I linked to her again. Darn, she’s good.) Her attitude was “Yeah. Yeah. Whatever…” but I kept after her. She tried hard, but it was difficult to keep up the energy when the results don’t come quickly.
She checks the number of inbound links to her site using Site Explorer, a tool I discuss in the book.
I got this email from her recently.
We’ll today I’m officially over a thousand. Am I supposed to put this in a diary of something? I remember in late October when you were on me about having 46…It was drudgery to even think about posting comments, etc. Now it’s the 1st thing I do for work every morning. Thanks for the push.
-Deborah
It warms my little heart. Yes, she went from 46 inbound links to over a thousand. It took her 5 months. She achieved it. Along the way, she’s made new friends and her site is better known to the community.
I’m so proud.



This for feedback about the newsletter. I really enjoy your newsletter and once a week seems to be a good interval.
I am wondering how you determined which day of the week to send it out?
I am currently involoved in a social network type of startup. Do you ever comment on that type of site specifically?
Thanks for the feedback!
I did a scientific study that determined that I have no idea what the best days to send out the newsletter are. Monday seemed like a good start of the week day. Thursdays seemed like a good pick me up in the middle of the week. Also, Chris Guillebeau, http://chrisguillebeau.com/, sends his out on those two days, so I just copied him.
The two schools of thought on newsletter days are to 1. send it when everyone else sends there, I’m guessing Monday morning, or 2. when no one else sends theirs, I’m guessing on Sundays.
I am actually planning to slowly move this back a day a week and watch the number of opens and click throughs to see what days seems best.
I’m hesitant about social media. I’m not sure enough people in my target market are using it to make it effective for me yet. I know people who do make it work, so there’s huge potential. I’m just not sure about the timing.
Tell us about your start up!
Thank You Conrad for this read. It was very informative. I did go to site explorer and checked my status and found that all my links are with in bonanza. Guess I’ll have to stop isolating and get my self out there and mingle in other sites and blogs…LOL
Thanks Again,
Roger